Will

My parents had five children. one of them being me.  The other four children are my relatives, NOT IN ANY WAY MY FAMILY.  I haven't seen any of them in over 20 years!

I believe family, those who give a damn, is chosen; relatives are not chosen.

Have a will, otherwise relatives, and their significant others, who may not give a damn, will legally make choices you don't want made!  Your things will go to relatives you may not want to have them.  Etcetera.

FOR YOUR OWN SAKE HAVE A WILL!